Sunday, February 7, 2010

Speechless


So I just finished watching Boys Dont Cry and all I can say is....wow.
I do not want to say too much to spoil anything for those who havn't watched it yet, but it was not what I expected at all. Then again, I am not really sure what I expected it to be.
It is just crazy to think about all the hate crimes towards gays, bisexuals, lesbians, and transgenders that happen and no one even knows about it.
It is horrifying that some people will go to tremendous lengths to cause pain, suffering and sadness upon those who are seen as different, or not of the 'norm'.

Well, I am off to bed! Can't wait to hear everyone else's opinions and reactions on the film!

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Queer Eye for the Literary Theory Student


First off my writer's block is gone thanks to today's class! I found the class today to be one of my favourite and most enjoyable classes thus far. Instead of debates there were solid, interesting discussions that had the class laughing for the whole hour & 15 minutes.
Some of what we said in class I already knew, like the difference between sex and gender.
Sexuality is a whole other topic.
After today's class I got to thinking about sexuality, what is taboo and what isn't.
I feel in society, especially the media, that though more people are accepting homosexuality it is lesbians that are more accepted than gays.
For example, at the 2003 MTV VMA's there was the infamous kiss between Britney Spears and Madonna during the show's opening performance. Neither women have admitted to being homosexual, or even bisexual, but admitted in interviews that it was a "spur of the moment decision". It caused a lot of uproar but also was seen as one of the hottest girl on girl makeouts of the decade.
Bending the barriers of sexuality is something that celebrities like to do to grab attention, for the pure shock value. Others just do it because it is part of who they are.
It is odd that it is more common to see 2 girls kissing than 2 boys. Females pushing the sexual borders is more acceptable than for males to do it.
Any thoughts on why that is?